Considering that the swinger lifestyle is no longer such a taboo topic, you and your partner might have brushed on the topic once or twice but never actually discussed. But, if you like the idea of swinging and are interested to give it a go, there are certain aspects of this lifestyle you’ll need to consider. And this is especially true if you want it with a TS couple, or just introducing a third, T-girl into the mix.
You can always research your options. Check who you like, browsing through T-girl Snapchat usernames might lead to the right type of contact that could end up with the perfect swinging combo. Or if you already have a certain couple in mind then opt for that instead. But just to be sure, go over the following details with your partner before proceeding with this particular sex practice.
This is especially important if you are just getting into the swinging lifestyle. The reasons behind your desire to try it need to be clear, if just one of you wants to have relations with different partners and the other is going along to save the relationship you shouldn’t even take this into consideration. In that case, working on the relationship or going your separate ways is what you need and not entering a swinging relationship.
On the other hand, if you have a strong and solid bond with your partner, and you just want to try something new and spice up your relationship, then this might be just what you need. Now, if you want to do it with a transsexual couple or with just introducing a shemale into your sex play it is important to talk to her about what your expectations are. There should not be any confusion, and your partner needs to explain their own boundaries and comfort zones when it comes to this particular swinging experience.
It is essential that you are both on board when it comes to wanting to try it, and, at the same time, that you are both 100% comfortable with the idea of sharing partners. Then and only then can you proceed. And more importantly, since this is venturing beyond your usual choice of partner and sex practice, it is important to discuss every detail about the bedroom dynamics.
Choosing the right trans couple or individual for your first swinger experience is very important. It will determine whether or not you will enjoy the practice and if you would be willing to make it a part of your sex life.
First of all, it would be a good option to have a sit-down with your chosen trans couple or individual just to get to know them better and set some ground rules. You need to make sure you are comfortable with each other and state clearly what you are and are not interested in doing as a part of your swinging experience. Some don’t include kissing as it feels too intimate while others find it impossible to go on without it. If you are looking for them on social media platforms like the tranny Snapchat accounts, make sure that you talk about everything first in DMs than in person so as to not create any sort of confusion.
If it is possible, try to find a couple or an individual who is experienced in this sort of sex play as they can guide you through the whole process and help you loosen up. In the beginning, it would be wise to avoid swinger parties, as you are still learning about the process and not sure what your or your partner’s reaction to the whole thing might be.
You should not consider swinging with a trans couple or individual if you are insecure about how you perceive them. There is enough taboo out there and life can be difficult enough for trans individuals without throwing into the mix a gender identity issue. So, you know the package you are signing up for, it should never be an experiment, but rather an adventure.
The mechanics of it are always the same regales of your swinging partners, you show up, establish rules, and have fun. But the most important factor is mutual respect and understanding. You are all equals in that space and all deserving of attention and a great time.
You can always turn to adult Snapchat accounts for inspiration or even advice as a lot of people are already doing what you want to try or they have the same questions and are seeking the same answers.
Based on what you have read so far, you are now ready to make an educated decision whether or not a swinging relationship with a trans couple or a trans individual is the right fit for you and your partner.
At the very least, if you are really attracted to the idea of it, just give it a try, that way you will know for sure if it is something you and your partner can enjoy, just make sure you are both open to the experience and communicate clearly with your chosen trans couple or individual as it has to be enjoyable and fun for everyone involved. But most of all it needs to feel comfortable in order for everyone to be their true selves and enjoy the ride.